So Far, So Fab!

Well not, perhaps, for all the Tampa Bay Ray’s
fans but for me? I can’t believe my week thus far.
And it’s only Thursday!

I’ve had 2 really extraordinary opportunities
this week. First, finally meeting Jo down in
Albert Lea…Second, on that same day, I got to
reconnect with my cousins, aunt & uncle. Had
so much fun, I stayed over night in Owatonna
and really caught up!

Then, today I met up with Kelly Read.
I met Kelly and her husband (and their daughter
Alliah) last December 8th. I was called to photograph
their daughter, born still, for NILMDTS.

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We’ve talked about getting together and finally
today was the day. I was so excited and nervous.
How would this go? Our only connection is one of
sadness, I thought. But Kelly’s face lit up as I
entered the Caribou at 8000 Norman Lake Dr.
Kelly revealed that she feels a positive connection
with me. She also shared with me that, in all reality,
I was about the only other person that actually saw
Alliah. How intimate is that? I felt nervous and
felt myself ramble. I grabbed her arm from across
the table and said…”I’m so sorry, I feel so
nervous!” Kelly put me at ease and shared so much
more with me including her passion to go forward
and try to help other families with losses such as
theirs. She wanted to plant that seed with me and
with whom ever else might want to get behind her
or beside her in her efforts to help others heal
and to continue on her healing journey as well.

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Kelly and her husband are, again, pregnant. This
time with a boy, due the middle/end of March.
She says this pregnancy feels so different and
her past has made her proactive for the days, weeks
and months that lie ahead of them.
Pray for this family, that they find strength as
they approach the anniversary of Alliah’s passing,
that they draw closer to God, their faith and as
they gather with family and friends on that anniversary.
Pray that they feel peace in knowing that she is
with the Lord and find hope for the future with
their new son.

Well, like I said..it’s only Thursday and already
I feel so blessed and grateful this week to be apart
of the lives of these ladies and to know that God
is doing wonderful things with me. I can’t wait to
witness what’s next!

First hard freeze hits.

Well, it had to happen, right?
I mean, after all, it is the end of October!
Doesn’t mean I like it, want it, am
ready for it or in the least, prepared
for it.

I stopped in Owatonna to visit with family
that I don’t see often enough…picked up some
wine and laughed the night away!!

Party, Party, Party!

Today is my aunt Cindy’s birthday!
Happy Birthday Cindy!!

Tomorrow is my sister Anne’s birthday!

Today I’m going along on Anne’s youngest’s
(Amanda) “kid” party at Skateville!

Later today, my neighbors are having their
annual costume party…right across the street!
I’ll post all the fun tomorrow.

I wanted to share a couple shots of Boo.
I don’t think that he’s figured out that he
was neutered a few months back…

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Hey, for those of you who don’t visit my facebook
page…here’s a look at some shots I grabbed at the
Hotel Sofitel on Thursday….

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It was fun to see Giuliani in person.
I like Norm Coleman…I don’t particularly
like his new teeth. :\

Best Cat Videos EVER!

Seriously…
You have to check this out…but before you do,
you may want to hit the restroom first!
I warned you!
Click HERE

Then, click HERE

And finally, HERE

Moving on.

I wanted to leave Katie up for awhile as a
sort of memorial so I thank you for all your
concerns and well wishes. Gary and I are just
fine. Didn’t realize that by not blogging I
would arouse such concern. Thank you, again.

Losing Katie was such a shock but I know that
she is with Hobie and that they are happy,
healthy and doing all those crazy brother-
sister things that they always did here.

Last night I joined my sister’s family in
Eden Prairie to celebrate Amanda’s REAL
birthday (10/22)…here are some shots from
that….

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Last weekend I got together with a good friend,
whom I hadn’t seen in a while, to photograph
her daughter, Kathryn. Here’s a slide show…

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Gary’s off on his first of many pheasant hunting
trips and I’m left to teach Boo that AA batteries
are not toys and foam pumpkins are not treats! icon wink Moving on.

Later today I will venture over to the Sofitel to
meet and listen to Rudy Giuliani and Norm Coleman
speak. I’ve been gonna hit many other stops of
Norm’s but it just hasn’t happened. Today’s the day.

Have a great day…I’ll see you all tomorrow.

Now I Lay My Cat To Sleep.

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First, I must share with you something quite personal
and devastating for both Gary and myself.
Katie has been struggling lately and Gary and I have
been desperately trying to get to the bottom of it all
so that we can move forward. However, every test would
come back fine…normal…nothing alarming.

That was until I talked with Dr. Jarvis yesterday morning
(she’s awesome by the way!). Dr. Jarvis was involved in
a lot of Hobie’s illness too so we have a history with
her and most of the staff at MVRS .
When she arrived yesterday morning she discovered that
Katie was not responding to the IV fluids, not rallying
like we’d all hoped, was having trouble walking, still
was not interested in eating (that made 5 days in a row!)
and to top it off…she’d gone blind and had lost her sense
of smell as well.
All very sudden, all very tragic, everything pointed to
something neurological….perhaps even a stroke of some sort.

So here we are, just 10 weeks out from having lost Hobie
and now we have to say goodbye to his sister, Katie. :\

I called and made arrangements for Gary and I to come up
for her euthanizing. Dr. Jarvis would not be available
but the young man in her place was wonderful.
We spent some time alone with her first and invited the
Dr. to come in. He was calm and explained it all as if it
were the first time. He was empathetic and had a great
“paw side” manner about him.

Katie was in my lap where I wanted her to stay for the
procedure so the Dr. moved the chairs so that Gary and I
could sit and face one another.
The Dr. first tested the line with saline and then we
gave him the okay to begin the “anaesthesia overdose”.
Swiftly, and painlessly (for Katie that is) she fell asleep…
in my lap. She is now with Hobie who she has been mourning
for the past 10 weeks. That makes me so happy. That’s my
silver lining in all of this.
Well, that and the fact that we have Boo. He’s a bit
baffled by it all too. I let him smell Katie on my hands
and arms when we returned home. He is so sweet. You know
what? I was sitting on the sofa on the porch and he came
out and sat on the ottoman like he always does. He looked
back at me and I said “Boo, come and sit with me, I’m sad
and I need you.” and he got up and came right over and
crawled into my lap and laid down. I looked over at Gary
and we were like…he NEVER does that! WOW! I understand
that animals have a sense about these things but that was
pretty cool.
The other day a client asked me, as she picked Boo up and
snuggled him to her face, “where did you GET him?”
I smiled and said…”my sister made him for me.” icon smile Now I Lay My Cat To Sleep.

We will miss Katie and Hobie. They are together now and
that gives me some peace.

Second, I registered my blog on the “Blog Action Day” site
as a participator like I did last year. This year’s topic is
“Poverty”. Today, more than a million blogs, world wide,
will blog on the subject of Poverty…pretty powerful really.
However, in that the timing here is lousy….. I only have
this to say…That sucks too!

No Cancer for Katie!

Relieved? Oh yea!
Do we have answers as to what’s going on? No.
This is pretty frustrating, for everyone.
Not knowing the cause of Katie’s weight loss
is making us crazy. Gary and I elected to have
MVRS keep Katie in their ICU for a couple of
days and get her on some IV fluids & nutrition.
If she rallies, then we can move on to see if
this is neurological. Best guess is that this
is a form of pancreatitis. I’ll know more later
this morning, I’ll give them a call and see how
she did last night and then (and I remember it
all too well) visiting hours are from noon to 4
and again from 6 to 8. I remember visiting Hobie
on Christmas Eve, twice.

Boo, on the other hand, is doing great so we
got to rule out bad cat food, which was nice!

Tonight I’m going to visit all my PUG friends
at our local PUG meeting..I haven’t been in ages.
Looking forward to that. For those of you new
readers, PUG stands for “Pictage Users Group”
and they meet once a month all over the nation.
Pictage is an online partner for viewing,
buying and selling images. The photographer
uploads all of the images, clients and their
families get to view and purchase directly from
the site and Pictage does the rest. Nice.

Blog Action Day is Wednesday, October 15th.
This year’s topic is “Poverty”. I’m sure that
when they selected the topic, way back when,
they had no idea how much more poverty would
exist…here in America. Click on the Blog
Action icon to the right and get more information.

Thursday I get to meet Sylvia Weinstock. I’m so
excited. I love cake, I love to photograph
wedding cake…what could be better? I get to
meet her personally, do the photo op thing
and have a little private time too. I’ll be
sure to share images from that as well.

Oh, I also have a secret that I cannot reveal
until Wednesday. But I’m just BURSTING!
Oh, and mom? NOT pregnant! tee hee.

One last thing…I believe that today will be
the day that my new site will go live.
It’s not all FLASHY or anything..just fresh and new.
Tons of new photos. I hope you like it.

This day is going to be good.

More about Katie.

I have felt so distracted lately.
I took Katie up to see Dr. Zeiman.
X-rays and another look.
At 3:30 I will take her to MVRS for
an ultrasound. Dr. Zeiman thinks she
see’s evidence of cancer but the ultrasound
will be more definitive.

I’m supposed to go to a TCPPA function
at 5…we’ll see.
I’m on the ballot for board member.
Think I’ll make a lawn sign.

randomness is the best I can do today.

rain is finally letting up.

Katie.

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Katie has been losing weight recently.
2 pounds to be exact. We took her to our
vet on Thursday and again on Friday for more
subQ fluids and a change of food.
She didn’t eat at all on Saturday so I brought
her up to the Emergency Vet here in Eden Prairie
this morning.

Dr. Erica Moore couldn’t definitively come to
any conclusion except that she may need an
ultrasound (I know those run around 400 bucks
at MVRS) and x-rays to determine what is causing
the weight loss due to her “anorexia”…poor baby.

The “C” word did come up but I won’t let that
land on me just yet.

I’ll take her back to see Dr. Zeiman tomorrow
and go from there. She’s resting now.

The Austin house had just been inundated with
the sickies this past week (is that right, mom?)

Having this past week off was not supposed to
be meant for care giving and resting but I guess
after a really busy summer season, it’s what I
needed…it’s like the body knows or something.

My energy is back and I’m ready to jump back in!

Not 100%

I’m getting there..more rest needed.
And it’s a good thing, cuz I’m really
good at resting!
Did I mention that Gary thinks that I was
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